Affirmation

The Lovers tell you: "I love myself and from that point of view I make the choices that are right for me."

Upright

Making a choice (in your lovelife), being pulled from left to right, a new relationship, double feelings, trust, temptation, choose between two mates

Reversed

Feeling torn apart, love triangle, not trustworthy, is your partner as available as (s)he tells you?, end of a relationship, infidelity, hard to resist magnetic attraction, remembering what was.

In your reading

Even though a lot of people think that this is the card that predicts a nice love relationship it is mostly a card of choice. We can't help being attracted to someone but starting a relationship with that same person is often more a matter of choice. It depends on our current state of relationship and whether we are open to starting one. It is very hard to determine whether or not you are open to a relationship. Often we tell ourselves that we are: yes I want a mate. But more often we have closed off our hearts because we have been hurt in the past and we're afraid it will happen again.

Opening your heart for someone is a choice. It is not something that just happens. You do it based on your past experiences.

The Lovers is not just a relationship card. It is a choice card in general. Choices have to be made at any point of your life. Will you accept that new job? Will start that new diet? It all depends on the attractiveness of the future.

Making a choice can be a very hard problem to solve. Sometimes it just feels as if you are torn apart. And thus you postpone answering the question because you are afraid of hurting someone. When people are not making choices it is because they are afraid of something they think is going to happen.

This choice is probably something that will change your life so consider it carefully but don't wait too long either.

The angel in the background is Raphael, the patron saint of healing. Making a difficult decision is often the starting point for healing. If you really do not know what to do, then consider asking help from an advisor or friend. They can help you make the decision.

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